Yes relationships are here for our growth, but even more importantly, they are here for our enjoyment, connection and fun. The thing is often we find ourselves stuck in that growth phase of the relationship and are left wondering where all the good stuff is…
Today I’m going to share with you 4 practical tips you can use to transform your relationships by aligning your vibration with your desired outcomes. Whether you’re looking to create more harmony with family, deepen your connection with a partner or attract new love into your life, these 5 alignment tips will guide you in harnessing the law of attraction to enhance your relationships.
By taking ownership of your energy and learning to stand in your truth, you can create harmonious and fulfilling relationships. These techniques not only improve your relationship with others but also foster a deeper understanding and love for yourself, paving the way for a more joyful and connected life.
In this post, I’m sharing 5 alignment tips to help you manifest better relationships.
They include:
- Get clear about what you really want
- Speak Your Truth
- Practice Forgiveness
- Learn to really listen
Let’s dive in so you can start experiencing more harmony, love and enjoyment of your relationships.
4 Alignment Tips to Manifest Better Relationships
Most of the disharmony in relationships comes from each person acting out of a place of unconscious conditioning or old beliefs. It’s sometimes tricky because we don’t even realize this is what is happening.
But if you feel a sense of uncomfort or disharmony in any relationship, that is your unconscious making itself conscious to you. This may be your opportunity to uncover old stories, beliefs and patterns that are playing out and causing havoc in your relationships.
As you practice these 4 alignment tips, you will begin to shift yourself into vibrational alignment with your truth and from that place, naturally attract better relationship experiences.
1. Get Clear about what you really want
It seems the most simple concept, but have you identified what you want to feel and experience in your relationships? It might be peace, fun, love or connection, laughter etc. You being clear within yourself about what you want to experience in this relationship will set the vibrational foundation for you to manifest it.
Put into Practice: Think of one relationship in your life you want to improve and ask yourself why am I in this relationship? What do I want to feel in this relationship?
2. Speak Your Truth
You are here on this planet to be and express as the unique version of yourself. In order to manifest relationships that feel good to you, you must practice speaking words that feel true to you, for you. You will access immense manifesting power the more you speak your own truth.
To clarify, your truth can only ever be about you. Your truth isn’t about anyone else. Your truth is what you are experiencing. Your truth is not your opinions about how others should or shouldn’t be acting.
When you speak your truth, you are giving yourself permission and allowing yourself to feel what you feel without judgment – this leads to inner alignment every single time.
Put it into Practice: The easiest way to start practicing this is by simply sharing how you feel in a moment with another person. As simply as “I am feeling blank right now.” It’s not the whole solution, but it is a start. The courage to simply state this is a big opening!
3. Practice Forgiveness
One of the biggest forms of resistance in the way of harmonious joyful relationships is…blame. We just can’t be in our power AND be blaming anyone or ourselves. If you want dream come true relationships…the blame has got to go.
This is where forgiveness comes in and can be extremely powerful for releasing resistance in a relationship to create something new.
Forgiveness will come from:
- The place in your heart that is simply done pushing against this other person or yourself.
- The place of knowing your power so clearly and just not wanting to give it away to the energy of blame.
- The place of tuning into compassion and feeling the truth that everyone, in every moment, is doing their best with what they know and have.
As much as we don’t like to hear this, holding onto blame is one of the ways we claim victimhood and stay disconnected from our power to manifest what we want.
But we also can’t force forgiveness, we can only choose it when we are ready. Forgiveness will only work when you consciously decide you are ready to feel different. Forgiveness doesn’t come from a thought in your head, it’s something that must be felt within you to actually create a shift in your vibration.
Put it into Practice: Bring to mind someone you love, who you feel has wronged you in some way. Ask yourself if you are ready to feel different about this. If yes…close your eyes, put your hand on your heart and repeat to yourself the intention to forgive them in whatever words feel best to you. “I choose to forgive you, for me.” “I am releasing my hold on this blame.” “I am setting us free of this old pattern.”
4. Learn to Really Listen
Oh this is such a fun (and challenging) one to practice. Listening is an art and I’m sure you’ve heard the old saying we have two ears and one mouth for a reason! We are meant to listen more than we speak.
When we are truly listening, we are being present. And it is only through a state of presence that true connection and love can arise.
Another reason this is so powerful in improving relationships is because usually the thing we want most from our relationships is to feel heard. That can only happen if someone is actually listening to you! So let’s give the energy we wish to receive. Just experiment with this. Try it on.
Put it into Practice: Instead of planning what you are going to say back or having a commentary running in your mind while your friend, family member or partner is speaking to you, just stop, let your mind be still and really listen to what they are saying. It doesn’t matter what they are talking about, or if you are even interested, just practice really listening.
Start Using These Tips to Manifest Better Relationships
Each one of these tips is a whole practice in itself, have a read through and see if one pops out for you to start practicing. You don’t have to get this perfect. Start by simply bringing an awareness to how these behaviors are currently playing out in your relationships. The more awareness you have, the easier it is to make a new choice.
As you apply each one of these steps into your relationships, you begin to naturally take ownership for your own energy and vibration. The more you feel this inner alignment, the more you begin to manifest relationships of such incredible connection and joy.
Wishing you relationships of expansion and fulfillment.
